FindChaos: The Official Blog of A. Stiffler

Professional illustrator, comic artist, graphic designer and avid birder. Stuff I draw and other nonsense.
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whowasntthere:

It’s my birthday in a week and I’m busy compiling a list of establishments that will give you free frozen yogurt for your birthday. These are my priorities.

So freaking soon!!! 
Also, I’m hoping at least one of those places has peanut butter sauce.

whowasntthere:

It’s my birthday in a week and I’m busy compiling a list of establishments that will give you free frozen yogurt for your birthday. These are my priorities.

So freaking soon!!!

Also, I’m hoping at least one of those places has peanut butter sauce.

ChaosLife: Foe Fashion

The answer to all of your style needs!

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And it’s not even Halloween yet.

weloveshortvideos:

I’ve promised to take this bird to live with me for few months. I think I’ve made a huge mistake…

It’s videos like this that remind me why it would be a very bad idea to get a large bird one day. My urge just… bounces away….

(via whiskeybrite)

lurkeriatipsos:

findchaos:

FindChaos: Unkindness, Page 41

If I may…

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Aww, look at Fragile w/ her arm around Mary♡

Reblogging for the day crowd!

(via whowasntthere)

whowasntthere:

Free-Ask-Friday? Free Ask Friday! 

She knows my weakness for Christoph Waltz. But seriously, ask away at K!

whowasntthere:

Free-Ask-Friday? Free Ask Friday! 

She knows my weakness for Christoph Waltz. But seriously, ask away at K!

vonaether:

porphyriasuicide:

I was gifted a most magical shirt at Gencon by my friend Ian. I love it so much XD.

From findchaos' fabulous ChaosLife webcomic. Specifically the New Frontiers strip.

Unfortunately I ordered a Large when I’m an XL, so I haven’t had many opportunities to wear it. I knew Porphy would appreciate some Spock lovins, even if it’s big enough for her to drown in.

Just means I’ll have to give my friends more money and order a new shirt!

Of all of our strips, this panel/merch makes me happiest when it randomly appears. Sharin’ the Kirk/Spock love! <3 

visioluxus:

The Red Hand
One shot from an amazing day with jacsfishburne.
I’ll be absent for the next week-ish, so I’ll leave you with that.

visioluxus:

The Red Hand

One shot from an amazing day with jacsfishburne.

I’ll be absent for the next week-ish, so I’ll leave you with that.

Asker gay-nerdlord Asks:
hello. :D but yes, i see you have been tagging lgbt+ stuff with gsrm? i would like to kindly point out that that is actually pretty problematic, as gross men used it to include pedophilia, kinks, and even rapists, the man who actually coined the acronym was a pedophile. a better acronym would be "mogii" it stands for "marginalized orientations, gender identity, and intersex". have a nice day!
findchaos findchaos Said:

wsswatson:

THIS IS NOT TRUE.

The term ‘sexual minorities’ was coined by Lars Ullerstam in his essay “The Erotic Minorities: A Swedish View”. This book DID include sexual deviants, including pedophiles, ‘kinksters’ and sexual abusers in its definition of sexual minorities. He did NOT, however, coin the term GSRM, in which the term ‘sexual minorities’ has been reclaimed and redefined by the queer community.

Thank you.

To add to the debate: unlike sexual orientations like hetero-, homo-, bi-, pan-, etc., pedophilia is still defined as a psychiatric disorder and only accurately describes a person’s preference for a certain age group. Simply put: it doesn’t belong in the same category as sexual minorities any more than any other sexual deviancy, such as bestiality, would. Let’s not allow pedophilia activists gain any more ground by letting them shoehorn into other people’s spaces, yeah?

Asker Anonymous Asks:
I actually have the same question. I know you're agender so I was wondering why you personally wanted to wear a binder.
findchaos findchaos Said:

Let me start this by apologizing in advance for any snark you feel is unwarranted in my answer. It’s not necessarily directed at you, just the dozen-plus Asks I got asking the same thing with varying degrees of rudeness. So, on that note:

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As an agender person, why wouldn’t I wear a binder? Or a dress? Or both, if I felt like it? By the sheer definition of the word, I don’t apply gender roles to my identity and that extends to clothing, as well. That doesn’t mean I walk around in a potato sack, it means I wear whatever I want, when I want.

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A binder is a handy way to present as even less gendered, and it’s especially handy when I’m wearing a stiff cotton shirt, the fabric of which tends to chafe my nipples. I’d apologize if that seems too personal, but let’s all be honest: people are asking about my undergarments. I have nipples that chafe easily. Bras have this annoying way of contouring, lifting, and padding in ways I don’t find comfortable or want to present.

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Being agender doesn’t mean I have to present as neutral as possible. Yes, I tend to like utilitarian, unisex clothing, but sometimes I like to wear a dress (hell, even a wig now and then), and other times, I like to wear combat pants and a leather jacket, binder ‘n’ all. These days don’t take away from my identity, they just add to it. I’d even go so far as to say, days like that wouldn’t alter anyone else’s identities, either.

Presentation The Be-All-End-All of Gender Identity; it’s just a fraction of it, the importance of which varies from person to person.

And for the record: it is pretty rude to ask people about their fucking underwear. I’m only answering because so, so many people keep asking and I’m giving everyone a benevolent fucking educational moment.

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So, to more simply answer the question, "why do [I] wear a binder?" None of your god damned business, that’s why.

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Asker Anonymous Asks:
I'm confused... why would you need a binder?
findchaos findchaos Said: